SUMMER ENDS, BUT GRANDPARENTING DOESN'T (Near and Far Grandparenting)

Children’s children are a crown to the aged,
    and parents are the pride of their children.

Proverbs 17:6 NIV

           If you are a long distance grandparent perhaps you were able to be with your grandchildren this summer at one time or another. Many families in the 21 Century take the opportunity to vacation together or have family get-togethers. That has worked for us with those far away as well as those nearby. It’s important to get together at some point and time. Why? Because when we’re together, we grandparents can see how we need to pray for the families and individuals involved. It is with sincerity that I say one of the roles of being a Christian grandparent is to pray for our children, grandchildren/spouses, and our great-grands. There is much power in prayer. We also get to know each unique personality.

            Summer vacation is winding up. Schools and colleges start so early. That’s the way it is in this modern age, and we have no choice but to roll with it. The question becomes, “How can we stay connect with long distance grandchildren and those close by?”

            Long distance grandparenting has to be on purpose. That means a plan and establishing a time slot to call. This is easier said than done because schedules are always changing. It also depends on whether they are homeschooled, or attending a public school, and their ages. It doesn’t take long before grands and great-grands become involved in extra-curricular activities. Try Face Time, Skype, or telephoning. They need to hear your voice and you need to hear theirs.

            Nearby grandparenting must be on purpose also. I’ve found if they live forty-five to an hour or more away, it’s difficult too. It won’t happen if you don’t plan it. Again, get your phone out and connect in the above ways. Texting is great with older grandchildren and children, although I’d rather see their faces.

            Back to school ideas: First, you might want to plan a "last hurrah" activity for grandchildren nearby before school starts. Then, if you can afford it, a back to school gift can be fun, whether it is school supplies, a gift card, or a weekend shopping trip. If you have lots of grandchildren, and great grandchildren, then you may find that too expensive. In that case positive greeting cards—funny ones, singing ones, or thinking of you, can be purchased inexpensively at Dollar General or Dollar Tree as well as other places. Just let them know you’re thinking of them. Also, in spite of it being the 21 Century, everyone enjoys receiving a letter. You might even get one back.

       Try other ideas on staying connected by checking out my Long Distance Grandma at Amazon.com. Just type in my name, Janet Teitsort, and it should pull it right up. Happy grandparenting!